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{"id":364,"date":"2020-03-20T17:06:00","date_gmt":"2020-03-20T17:06:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/retune.metanoeo.org.uk\/?p=364"},"modified":"2021-04-12T12:20:51","modified_gmt":"2021-04-12T11:20:51","slug":"im-not-afraid-to-be-by-myself-but","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/retune.metanoeo.org.uk\/2020\/03\/20\/im-not-afraid-to-be-by-myself-but\/","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;m not afraid to be by myself but &#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right\"><strong><em>Everybody Needs Somebody to Love&nbsp;<\/em>by&nbsp;<em>The Christopher Emery Company<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/retune.metanoeo.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/vonecia-carswell-0aMMMUjiiEQ-unsplash-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-365\" srcset=\"https:\/\/retune.metanoeo.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/vonecia-carswell-0aMMMUjiiEQ-unsplash-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/retune.metanoeo.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/vonecia-carswell-0aMMMUjiiEQ-unsplash-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/retune.metanoeo.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/vonecia-carswell-0aMMMUjiiEQ-unsplash-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/retune.metanoeo.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/vonecia-carswell-0aMMMUjiiEQ-unsplash.jpg 1212w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Photo&nbsp;by Vonecia Carswell on Unsplash<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A few months ago, who would have thought we would have heard the term self-isolation so much? As the coronavirus is declared a worldwide pandemic by the World Health Organisation, we are increasingly being encouraged to isolate ourselves from others and avoid social contact. But what are the consequences of this for our wellbeing? This week\u2019s song&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/tUgavzoYKZI\">Everybody Needs Somebody to Love<\/a>&nbsp;from the soundtrack to the movie&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/2xQOdPd\">The Blues Brothers<\/a>&nbsp;gives us some food for thought.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"The Blues Brothers - Everybody needs somebody - 1080p Full HD\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/tUgavzoYKZI?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>As a starting point, I should acknowledge that this isn\u2019t a negation of the idea that isolation is an important part of the battle with the virus. There are clear indicators and advice that certain groups of people, and people in certain circumstances should maintain their distance. So, if you have been advised to self-isolate, please DO follow the guidance. It also seems sensible to consider our contact with others and what is helpful and necessary as we seeks to control the spread of the virus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yet, it is also important for us to recognise that as humans we need one another. And, yes, sometimes, what we need more than anything is the warm comforting experience of a hug or the encouragement of a friendly smile over a cup of tea. In the lovely sing-along words of the Blues Brothers hit:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Everybody wants somebody to love \u2026 kiss \u2026 miss \u2026 squeeze \u2026 please<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We all have dark days and times of loneliness. In fact, before this crisis, there had been a loneliness epidemic spoken of in the UK, especially with regards to our older folk. So, whilst in these extraordinary times we need to limit our contact with others, it is important for this not to become the new norm for the sake of risk management. Rather, it needs to be an extreme measure for an unprecedented situation. After all:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>I&#8217;m not afraid to be by myself but I just need to be somebody to love.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, as we attempt to move forward as a nation it is important for us all to remember that wellbeing is not an individual isolated concept but requires us to be community. And that means being with people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Need to reconnect with people but don\u2019t know how? 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